sex

I don’t know how many times I’ve heard friends, relatives and acquaintances say that they think people overdo it with this whole consent thing – but they’re a lot. Every time I hear it part of my heart breaks. That’s partly because I have to explain again and again why I think this view is…

Read More Consent: my thoughts on why we don’t want to do it, what it looks like and why it matters

I’ve been taking writing a bit more seriously for about 3 months now. I have a few things written which I’m happy about, some of it I like more than others. I have a blog setup in an acceptable state. I’ve shown my stuff to a writer who’s become my mentor and they’ve been very…

Read More We’re good, they’re bad: the harm the gay scene does to us

I’m not very big on sex in public. It never really worked for me, I don’t get a kick out of the fear of getting caught as I’ve heard many men do. I get anxious instead, lose my hard-on and desire and want to leave. I’ve been however in an exploratory phase and it’s something…

Read More I’m not like the others: cruising and racism

It’s interesting to be spending time in Greece during my adult years. I left my country when I was 22 and didn’t get a chance to get to know many different aspects of it. The truth is that I got disappointed in so many ways growing up here that I actually refused to get to…

Read More Things I learned from chatting with a faceless profile on Grindr